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I worry for her and hope she knows what she's doing. The bachelorette winner, Jon, is a child and I predict that they won't last. I understand why she chose him; good looking, same friends, and fitness. Sadly, their personalities will clash. The other guy, James, was funny and easy going. Although, I'm glad she didn't choose him just to please her viewers. Then there was Joncarlo and he was bashful, but his life had structure and it would balance her out. It seems like she took the easy way out and was afraid to date outside her comfort zone. She liked that Jon lived in Boise and it was enough to convince her that it was "faith." It'd be sensible for her to try and date a different type, since her past with men disappoints her. I watch shaytards because I admire their morals. They're amazing parents and strive for success. I learn a lot from them, but I question their judgement this time! They want happiness for Carlie, but a fun fling online won't do her justice. She's better than a "fun time" and deserves the best.

people only wanted her to pick james because they though hey james is chubby like shay was, he must be a great guy! yet James' friend let it slip somewhere that he was doing it to get closer to shay and maybe start making some videos of his own. Besides, how do you know how John really is? I actually really thought he was a perfect fit for Carlie, and the recap of her date shows that the family likes him too, after getting to know him. And who knows, maybe it was fate

foreverx3 wrote:people only wanted her to pick james because they though hey james is chubby like shay was, he must be a great guy! yet James' friend let it slip somewhere that he was doing it to get closer to shay and maybe start making some videos of his own. Besides, how do you know how John really is? I actually really thought he was a perfect fit for Carlie, and the recap of her date shows that the family likes him too, after getting to know him. And who knows, maybe it was fate

You're optimism is great, but also fairly naive. Carlie plays a ditzy fun blonde on camera but like with everyone, there's dept to her. She's a mom and loves Cooper so much!! John* would have been perfect for her, maybe 5 years ago, when she was cheerleading in college. I'm not saying he's a bad person, nor is a douche for being fit! That is not a legitimate reason to harshly judge someone, since muscular men are capable of treating girls well. DUH. The reason I don't like him is because he presents himself poorly. I truly believe he wanted to "win" and his friends put him up to it. Carlie's been ready to settle down and time is precious when you have a child. She can't rely on Shay and Casey to "father" Cooper forever. She will eventually move out and live on her own. When that happens, it would help if she had a father figure in Cooper's life and someone to love and support her. Jon doesn't seem fit for the role. He's not father material, not yet. It seems like he still has some growing to do and would crumble under pressure. I hope I'm wrong and we see more of him. Carlie claims he's respectful and nice to her family, then again, what guy wouldn't be on a first date? I wish them the best. Prove us wrong JOHN!! Otherwise, she needs to widen her options and go for the type she isn't instantly drawn to.

She seems like a walking tv commerical. I see her as a fake person because if you listen for even 5 minutes she sounds exactly like Kaitlette (however you spell her name) What are the chances her and Shay are both upbeat and positive 24/7? I have never seen the dad on vlogs, but I have seen the mother and she is just normal...no super positive and happy person there.

I actually like Carlie's personality. She seems like so much fun. At first I didn't like the guy she chose but after hearing her reasons, I can see why. Who knows if its meant to last?!?! That's why it's called dating. You have to kiss a few frogs until you find your prince. I like that the family likes him but hope they don't get too close to him just in case it doesn't work out between them. Carlie is gorgeous and I can see her having a major career in Hollywood. It's only a matter of time before she leaves youtube and ends up on the big screen.

Whenever Carlie first picked John, I was not pleased . But as I watch him more and more in her vlogs, I begin to like him more. I still am on the fence about him though. i really don't want to see Carlie and Cooper get hurt.

most of the comments in videos with jon are like "omg he's so good with cooper!" i watch the video and cooper barely says a word to jon. he's just near him and john tries to interact with him but doesn't even make eye contact. what??? people must really want to like him.

she claims they're not having sex. not that its any of my business but they don't live near one another, cooper and youtube take up most of her life, and they haven't even kissed yet. i don't see this relationship taking off anytime soon. i still think he's very immature and not ready for a family.

just because they're into fitness and looks and come from nice families doesn't mean that they're not on the same page in life. i just think jon is in it for all the wrong reasons. they're not in sync. carlie seems to be going too fast for him, like meeting the family and taking things so seriously.

also, he had no idea carlie had a kid going into the bachelorette thing. when shay asked him on the interview what he thinks about carlie having a son, he admitted to not knowing about it. his reaction is what led me to believe he's the wrong guy.

Does anyone know what happened between John and Carlie? On the TheMomsView Mother's Day special, Grandmatard says she would love for Carlie to have a second baby when she finds a ''nice'' husband. Then the interviewer laughs and says ''bacholerette number two''.

Never mind, she said they mutually decided to break up.

MakeupGirly wrote:Does anyone know what happened between John and Carlie? On the TheMomsView Mother's Day special, Grandmatard says she would love for Carlie to have a second baby when she finds a ''nice'' husband. Then the interviewer laughs and says ''bacholerette number two''.

The ''nice'' husband was a dig at Carlie's first husband, I assume. He apparently wasn't so nice in the end, or at least that's the impression I get listen to her talking about it.

**listening

OMG!

To break up well, such good people, must he do

abbadabba wrote:

MakeupGirly wrote:Does anyone know what happened between John and Carlie? On the TheMomsView Mother's Day special, Grandmatard says she would love for Carlie to have a second baby when she finds a ''nice'' husband. Then the interviewer laughs and says ''bacholerette number two''.

The ''nice'' husband was a dig at Carlie's first husband, I assume. He apparently wasn't so nice in the end, or at least that's the impression I get listen to her talking about it.

I take it he wasn't too great throughout the marriage either... she's been through a lot in her hometown. I'm glad she's dating and hopefully finds someone soon!

-bump-

Thanks for sharing.

Lot's of things have been said about her ex husband I never know what to believe. I once read in a comment he had cheated on her with her best friend at the time. Then I read they just decided to split, but then in the custody hearing he said some nasty things. I thought there might be some truth to the cheating by Carlies reactions in the 'cheating' Moms Views episode. Not that it matters, but people do make a big deal about it in the comments all the time.

She briefly talks about Jon and says he was upset by the Arbys commercial here http://youtu.be/AjFgExM01-s?t=5m30s

checkmate wrote:Lot's of things have been said about her ex husband I never know what to believe. I once read in a comment he had cheated on her with her best friend at the time. Then I read they just decided to split, but then in the custody hearing he said some nasty things. I thought there might be some truth to the cheating by Carlies reactions in the 'cheating' Moms Views episode. Not that it matters, but people do make a big deal about it in the comments all the time.

She briefly talks about Jon and says he was upset by the Arbys commercial here http://youtu.be/AjFgExM01-s?t=5m30s

I read the comment about the cheating on her with the best friend thing too. Don't know how true it is. Haven't heard about the custody thing though. Where did you get that info?

bumb ubm!